Kathy said around breakfast time on September 9, 2008
I have never said much in the way of politics since its usually such a delicate subject and I don’t like confrontation. However, as I get older (and my geriatric hip pain is the real evidence) I am much less worried about a potential disagreement. Living part time in Georgia, I knew there would be an adjustment. It’s the south, people are different than folks in the Northeast. I am clearly from the Northeast. I even have a slight residual Long Island accent to prove it. (Joelle caught a glimpse of it when I visited and giggled). One of the main differences between Georgia and New York is that here, people assume. In New York, you never assume anything about someone because you might put your foot in your mouth if you do. You don’t assume their religious beliefs, you don’t assume their heritage, their relationship preferences, sexual preferences, economic status, and you certainly don’t assume their political views. In Georgia, most people assume you are just like them. At a local establishment the other day I started chatting with the sales girl and while we waited she did just that. Assumed. She assumed I was a Christian Republican and started gushing about how great it was that McCain selected Sarah Palin and “how great is she???”.
I swallowed hard and plainly told her I didn’t care for Palin and her political or religious views but that it was nice to see women playing a bigger role in higher political positions. I also got an earful about her views on abortion and how if you choose an abortion you will be “judged later” in that “you know what I mean” tone. She simply “could not vote for someone who is FOR abortion”. Right, because supporting a woman’s right to choose means you support abortion. *insert huge eye roll* But it’s ok to shoot innocent animals from a helicopter, apparently.
I didn’t get into it with her that I firmly believe in a woman’s right over her own life and body. That it makes me sick to think that some Christian politician can decide what I can and cannot do. That doesn’t mean I support abortion, it means I support human rights. I am voting for Obama this election and I am most certainly not a Christian. I may need to send a memo to Georgia about that.
Wow, totally didn’t intend on posting a political diatribe this morning.













from mi
Well said. I totally agree with you.
I have a very hard time discussing or blogging about politics.
from Orlando, FL
Cocktail: Cabernet Sauvignon; gallons of it.
from your moms.
I’ve found that one of the most difficult things about moving to “The South” has been this. In NY, if you assume something about a person, you might not only insert your foot into your mouth, you might also get shot!
Here, 9 times out of 10, I want to get my shotgun out and shoot every single right winged asshole who ASSUMES I am just like them. But I also don’t wish to go to jail because of their stupidity.
Now I simply say “I’m from NY. Stop speaking to me about your *values* and I’ll refrain from ripping you a new one, mmkay?”
from your moms.
I get that a lot too, living South of the Mason Dixon line. It’s even worse when it’s your own relatives (by marriage) doing the assuming! Then all I can do is smile and keep my mouth shut.
from your moms.
Try having a vagina and living in Alaska. I’m approached by strangers with, “Isn’t this SO EXCITING?! Isn’t she GREAT?!”
*awkward*
from your moms.
This close to election time fever must be getting to people. I’ve seen more and more people coming out of the political closet on their blogs lately. As for me, I’m staying in.
Yeah… I’m big like that.
from Alaska
I have to agree with chepooka. And no, I don’t think she is so great. She may look great in a skirt, but I sure as hell hope we want more than that for VP.
from your moms.
Too bad she seems to be doing so well in her campaign!
from your moms.
I like to avoid discussing sex, religion, and politics on my blog (like, when I actually *blog*), but oh, the assumptions annoy me to no end.
Don’t discuss sex, religion, or politics with me unless you and I really and truly know each other. And especially don’t discuss all three as if they were one topic, which many right-wing Americans have a tendency to do.